The end of summer draws nigh, and the start of the school year looms in the horizon. One of my grandchildren entered kindergarten this year. His school follows a modified year-round schedule, and classes have already begun. The photos of his first day of school evidence both smiles and tears amongst his classmates. The range of emotions ran the full gamut. He was excited to pick out a new backpack and lunch bag. He was excited to don his new school clothes and shoes. However, he was not excited to leave his comfort zone and venture into a whole new world—one with rules and rigid structure. He survived his first day at school without a meltdown, but he let his mother know his true feelings when he returned home. Worst…day…ever. It reminded me of the classic tale of Alexander And The Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day by Judith Viorst.
For the older kids, the start of school brings a reunion with friends…and the resumption of homework. It’s a bittersweet time, a real mixed bag. Gone are the carefree summer vacation days. Back are textbooks, school projects, and early bedtimes. But also fall sports, school clubs, and a sense of camaraderie. Friendships are forged and special memories are made. Middle school and high school can be both the best of times and the worst of times.
For parents, the commencement of the school year means back-to-school shopping for new clothes and school supplies. Kids often experience a growth spurt over the summer, like sunflowers nourished by the sunshine, and outgrow the clothes in their closets. And teachers post long lists of the books and supplies required for their classes. With four kids, I practically needed a spreadsheet to stay organized. I frequently felt like a full-time event planner and entertainer in the summer—it was fun, but exhausting, and the source of many fond memories.
